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How to Get Over a Breakup

If you are wondering how to get over a breakup, you’re at the right spot…

I remember when we broke up, the first time
Saying, this is it, I’ve had enough
‘Cause like we hadn’t seen each other in a month
When you, said you, needed space (what?)
Then you come around again and say
Baby, I miss you and I swear I’m gonna change, trust me
Remember how that lasted for a day?
I say, I hate you, we break up, you call me, I love you

– Taylor Swift

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I am writing this a year after my breakup, and I know getting over a breakup is easier said than done. TRUST ME I know it’s tough and you feel like life isn’t and won’t get better. I think everyone has had that feeling, at least once in their life.

I am here to tell you getting over a break up is hard. During the moment you think it is impossible, but it is totally possible, and you can do it. If I did it, you could do it.

Are you ready?

So how to get over a breakup… how do you do it?

Do you delete all the pictures? Do you cry your eyes out? I am only honest with you all right now, and I cried continuously almost every day after it happened to me. I just knew my life was coming to an end.

My break up was the hardest thing for me, but it was definitely the best thing to ever happened to me! That is why I want to share my journey with you all! It is so necessary. When I was figuring out what to talk to you guys about this week, It was hard. I always wanted to tell you guys about something super personal (my breakup), but I was never ready to open up about it fully. Then I celebrated my year of being single, and now I call that day the anniversary of the best thing to happen to me.

We start this in baby steps though, so don’t worry! First how to get over a breakup. Then, how it changed my life for the better!

We start this in baby steps though, so don't worry! First how to get over a breakup. Then, how it changed my life for the better! Click To Tweet

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How to Get Over a Break Up:

Cry

I cried for weeks! I cried so freaking much my eyes were in actual pain, and I had no idea that was possible. I usually am not much of a crier, but the waterworks were insane. Makeup was no longer needed because I cried it ALL off! So, I stopped wearing it for awhile. Luckily, my coworkers were so supportive during my “time of need.” I was genuinely depressed during that moment, and they helped me out tremendously.

Sometimes you just need to release all of your tears and not hold them in.

Be Upset

You have every right to be mad. You just got dumped, or you had to dump someone, only you know your exact situation. Showing emotion will definitely help you get over a breakup, because like I said previously, you cannot hold it in.

Be angry at the fact (if) you wasted time and money. You were lied to or mistreated. Let your emotions in. It is ok!

Evaluate your situation. Try and try to learn whatever lesson you can from that situation.

Delete

Delete all memories, unless you all broke up on great terms I don’t think the best way to get over a breakup is to have constant memories of the relationship.

When my relationship ended, I had my best friends log into my Instagram and delete all of my photos of us (love my friends). I had another do the same on Facebook. Literally, I could not have gotten through my break up without my friends. Thanks, guys!

All of my photos I deleted, I deleted voicemails, messaging threads, and definitely blocked the number.

You need to delete because how else will you get over a breakup?

Take Care of Yourself

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Hello Revenge Body! I don’t know if it’s just me, but I think you should always want to be in your best shape with a killer body after a breakup. Let him, or she know what they’re missing!

Eat well! Drink water, live your best life! Save, travel, be happy!

Eat well! Drink water, live your best life! Save, travel, be happy! Click To Tweet

No, it is not going to happen overnight, but it will happen I promise. You just got to want it!

I am the happiest I have been in a while when it comes to my actual life and what I am doing.

Move on

Bye Felicia!

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Move on; it is simple. Move on!! That is another way to get over a breakup. Put yourself out there (something I am still working on).

Ok, guys now those were the step to get over a breakup, and I hope you loved it! And I hope it was helpful. Now, I want to tell you guys how it changed my life for the better.

Remember how I told you guys I got dumped on March 3, 2017, yes I do remember that day because that’s the day that my life changed and at that time I thought it was going to be for the worse and honestly it was for the better.

Don’t get me wrong; I went through a tough time I was so sad I promise you I cried every single day. I cried every time I was awake; the little things made me cry.

It sucks because now you will have those moments that you want to share with that person, whether it is funny, exciting, or sad and you can’t because you guys are no longer together. It’s like you lost your Bestfriend.

I didn’t think I could get over a breakup, not this breakup.

I did.

THE BEST THING EVER

I finally was able to do what made me happy

When you are in a relationship, it is a lot of comprising. I am such a giving person when I am in a relationship, I’d go without, and I realized I wasn’t making myself happy when it came to certain things. It’s like my dreams were put on the back burner.

I learned myself

I was in a relationship my entire adult life. So, finally being single meant I had to learn who Terrah was and it was hard, but it was incredible. I started loving me and everything I wanted to accomplish.

Accomplished Goals

I was able to buckle down truly and get serious about my blogging! That was freaking incredible. I realized I loved it and I’ve learned so much just from blogging. Things that I never thought of learning.

Blogging actually helped me get over a breakup, isn’t that something.

I’ve started my website, grew my accounts, guest blogged, had brands reach out to me!! All of this happened after my break up. I am not saying you cannot accomplish goals with a significant other.

All I am saying, you have to continue to find yourself and learn yourself regardless. I did not do that and had to learn. So, when my relationship ended, that was the perfect time for me to study me.

When I look back on that day in my life, I think what hurt me the most was the way the break up happened it was via text, it was not in person. It was so emotionless, and it was just like I meant nothing to him.

Our entire time together meant nothing to him, his exact words to me were “I no longer love you,” and it threw me off guard because the day before he said he loved me and wanted me to tell him I loved him too, so what happened in that relationship? How did it fail? There were so many questions in my head that I would always ask myself.

I couldn’t image me getting over it. I wanted to know how to get over a breakup. It was such an impossible goal for me at the time.

Look at me now.

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I am happy, living life, hanging out, and doing something I love (blogging).

Friends, life gets better I promise. You can and will get over a breakup. I did.

Friends, life gets better I promise. You can and will get over a breakup. I did. Click To Tweet

If you are depressed or down in the dumps, read my article on why you should never settle here and what to tell yourself daily here. I promise that will help you a little bit.

Also, a great video to check out is from Raven Else, How to Get Over a Breakup.

Maybe this is perfect timing for you and if not, send it to someone who is going through this. It may help!

XOXO,

Terrah

About Terrah: I am Terrah LP and I am in my 20s trying to learn and understand the exciting yet emotional ride, called life. As a college graduate who majored in Marketing, I would love to be a Social Media Influencer! It is truly my passion. I have many thoughts and opinions, so I thought to myself...why not share? About the Blog: The blog will be all of my thoughts and opinions. Even though they are thoughts and/or opinions, they are mainly factual. (hahaha) I truly hope you all enjoy the blog!

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